I know these are not mom idea's but today is a weird day - I have a lot of thoughts that I need to get other women's opinion's on.
I wrote a little while ago about delegating .... am I selfish or less of a women because I decided to hire a cleaning service to clean my house?
Now I am asking: is it OK to ask for help?
I have NEVER been one to ask for help - i would rather do it myself then depend on someone else. This is true in both my professional life and personal life. I have always felt like if I ask for help then it's going to make me look like I can't do it myself. I also feel that if I have to ask someone to help, they might do it but they really don't want to because they didn't just offer (rather then ask).
For example: If I am cleaning the house and someone asks, is there anything I can do to help? Why would I say yes? There is obviously things that can be done that would be a big help - if they wanted to help they would just do it, right?
Am I wrong in my thinking??